Let’s be clear; there’s usually nothing easy about picking up your life and moving to a new foreign country and fitting in with New Zealand regionals? There’s a lot to learn.
The food is different, and the language is( often) altered, the culture is different. It makes some serious nerves to pick up and become an expat, but with a little of diligence, it can be one of the most rewarding moves of your life.
When I first decided to move to New Zealand, I stupidly assumed that because it was a westernized country where English was spoken, I’d have no trouble fitting it. But, as it turns out, life and culture in Chicago are vastly different than life on an Island Nation.
There are some things I bid I knew before moving that would have formed my transition a little easier. Here are my best gratuities for fitting in with New Zealand locals
1. Keep it informal
Kiwis live a relaxed lifestyle from the clothes they wear to how they address their superiors.
Dressing up for Kiwis often conveys donning their fanciest duo of jandals and their cleanest duet of stubbies. If that sentence doesn’t make sense to you, don’t worry, it will eventually. Even in the workplace, the dress is usually reasonably casual. Unless you’re in a bank, you probably won’t meet clothings and ties.
When addressing directors and collaborators, Kiwis prefer to use first names and often even nicknames. They like to treat everyone the same and often attend their heads and superiors as friends, doctors too.
2. Keep that work-life offset in check
Kiwis are famous for maintaining an excellent work-life balance.
They believe in place in some hard hours at work but likewise respect their free time. Hell, the best coffee spot in municipality is famous for closing their openings over the Christmas break, the busiest two weeks of the year. Could they be seeing lots of money over that time? Sure, but is it worth the stress? Nah.
Kiwis know when to draw the line and make sure they have time to relax, and best of all, they don’t feel guilty for it. If you want to fit in with the locals, make sure you make some holiday time and respect others when they’re doing the same.
3. Sarcasm predominates supreme
Keen on fitting in with New Zealand? Learn to speak sarcasm.
If English and Maori share the title for the common communication in New Zealand, satire would undoubtedly be the second.
Kiwi humor is often described and dark and thoroughly dry, but if you can pick up on it, you’ll soon find yourself tittering along. A shortcut to perceive Kiwi humor is to accept the opposite for everything they say immediately.
For example, if someone calls you a champion, you’re most certainly not.
4. Stay humble
A quick way to get an eye roll out of a kiwi is to start talking about your most recent accomplishments. Start yarning on about all the things you’ve done, and you’ll be met with silence or a immediate reform of subject.
This is because Kiwis embrace the towering poppy ailment, where people who brag about how immense they are are resented and criticized. If you’re going to talk about your success, do so carefully and try to elevate those who helped you reach that success.
5. Nix the small chat
Love it or detest it, Kiwis are genuine.
They don’t mince words, and if they ask you how you’re disappearing, they genuinely want to know.
A quick way to piss off a Kiwi is to say, “Hey mate, how are ya” and then immediately move onto the next convict without making them a chance to answer. It may seem like a common usage to you, but to Kiwis, they find it rude and insincere.
If you’re going to ask them questions, they’re going to want to answer. Kiwis don’t mind a bit of ungainly silence, so they’d much preferably sit in silence then replenish the air with a foolish chat about the weather.
6. But don’t get too personal
Here’s another goodie for fitting in with New Zealand regionals- don’t too get up in their business.
When you’re asking them questions, be assured not to cross the line by inviting them super personal questions. Don’t ask them how much money they determine, how much their mansion penalties, or who they’re have voted in favour of in the next elections.
In my experience, I’ve found that Kiwis generally tend to keep their personal business to themselves and a select few friends, so when integrating into a Kiwi friend group, tread carefully with the deep questions.
7. Adopt the can-do position
Kiwis are famed for the# 8 cable attitude. The old-fashioned saying starts that on remote farms, Kiwis would often have long wheels of number 8 wire, which they would use to fix basically powered mechanical or structural problem. The cable became synonymous with the flair and resourcefulness of New Zealanders and is a common artistic characteristic still to this day.
Perhaps part of it is because they are an island nation that has historically had to be self-reliant for a long time. If something is broken, New Zealanders will ever demonstrate it a crack to try and determine it before buying new.
They’ll go to great lengths to solve the issue on their own, and if you’re trying to fit in, you should too. Kiwis wear their age-old duct-taped puffer casings with pride here.
8. Respect the environmental issues
Speaking of not buying new, most Kiwis hold the state of the environment near and dear to their hearts.
Perhaps because they live in a literal paradise, when you get to see pure beauty every day and health risks that appeal faces, you appreciate it, perhaps it’s because they have a small population. Here it’s easier to pass modify on a large scale.
Whatever it is, Kiwis generate a shriek about the rivers and mountains and air. If you want to fit in, gully your single-use plastic. You’ll speedily be shunned for getting a plastic forking with your takeaway or forgetting your reusable coffee cup. Recycle when you can, but more than anything, if you want to fit in with the Kiwis, start with reducing the amount you exhaust, to begin with.
What do you think? Any gratuities for fitting in with New Zealand locals? Share!
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