These Twin Brothers Are Saving Lives in Ways You’ve Never Imagined—Prepare to Be Blown Away!

These Twin Brothers Are Saving Lives in Ways You’ve Never Imagined—Prepare to Be Blown Away!

Ever wondered what it takes to truly be a health care hero? It’s not just about holding impressive credentials or working endless hours — it’s about heart, humanity, and a relentless fight against bias and misunderstanding. Meet Desmond and Darien Sutton, twin brothers who grew up between hospital hallways and courtroom benches, absorbing lessons on compassion, resilience, and the power of storytelling from their nurse mother and attorney father. Now, as a maternal-fetal medicine specialist and an emergency physician—both based in New York—they’re rewriting what it means to care for patients, especially in Black and brown communities where health inequities persist. Their story isn’t just inspiring; it’s a potent reminder that the best doctors do more than treat bodies — they fiercely defend dignity. Ready to dive into the candid conversations and hear firsthand how these brothers blend intuition with protocol, challenge misinformation, and use their voices on national platforms? Grab a coffee, this one’s gonna be a deep breath worth taking. LEARN MORE

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This piece is part of our first-annual Health Care Heroes series, where we spotlight people doing amazing things in the health care and medical fields. Read the rest of the stories here.


DESMOND AND DARIEN Sutton grew up on a different type of learning.

Their mother, who spent 32 years as a pediatric ICU nurse, taught them how to care with a gentle character and a disposition that accommodates a multitude of social mores.

Their father, a criminal defense attorney, moonlighted as the twins’ “enabler of creativity.” He taught them how to remain stout in the face of doubt and to understand that everybody has a story that shapes them.

Some days the twins would watch their mom at work. Other days, they’d watch their dad. Somewhere between hospital hallways and courthouse benches, the Sutton brothers, now 37, found their calling.

Today, Desmond Sutton, MD, an obstetrician-gynecologist and maternal-fetal medicine specialist, is the deep breath associate chief medical officer (process improvement) and director of obstetric quality & patient safety at Mount Sinai West and Mount Sinai Morningside in New York. At the time of this interview, he was the director of labor and delivery at Mount Sinai West, where he and his team specialized in navigating high-risk pregnancies.

Meanwhile, Darien Sutton, MD, an emergency-medicine physician at Northwell Health in New York, thrives in the controlled chaos of the emergency room where doctors have minutes—sometimes seconds—to decide what happens next. Beyond the ER, Darien has become one of the country’s most visible physician voices. He serves as a medical correspondent for ABC News and Good Morning America, while educating hundreds of thousands of people on his social media platforms.

What makes the Sutton brothers stand out isn’t just their credentials. It’s their perspective. They understand how bias, fear, and misunderstanding shape the health care experience, especially for Black and brown patients. They listen longer. Ask more questions. Look past assumptions.

They are health care heroes because they do more than diagnose maladies. They defend dignity. They challenge bias. They educate teams, patients, and the public. In hospital rooms and on national platforms, they remind us that the best doctors do not merely treat bodies. They fiercely fight for people every single day.


Men’s Health: When did you first realize that medicine wasn’t just a career, but a responsibility that you carry?

Desmond Sutton: Our mother was a pediatric ICU nurse for 32 years. I remember waking up to the smell of her hair curling at 5 a.m. and knowing that she was getting ready for work. It always seemed like she had a higher purpose. She was never upset or annoyed or angry. And I remember she told me, “If you’re going to do something for the rest of your life, you better love it.” When we would call her in the middle of the workday for something that wasn’t at all important she would tell us, “I’m taking care of sick kids. I love you, but there is something more important than you right now.” And that was like, “Okay, there is a higher purpose to this.” That’s when I knew that medicine was much more than just a job. It was also a responsibility and a calling that extended past her shift. People relied on her to translate very difficult topics and help them get through very difficult moments in their own lives related to their health.

Darien Sutton: Our mom is a true inspiration…and our father was such an enabler of creativity. He would always be excited when we were excited. So when we started to get excited about science, he would always take us to the science fairs. He would always sit on the couch on Fridays while he was reading the activity plan for the weekend, and he would just be looking for things that were educational. In retrospect, it was such a wonderful experience, and I’m so grateful for it. They didn’t care what we did. They just said, “Whatever you do, if you’re interested in it, we’re going to support it, and you’re going to be the best at it or try to be.” I think that’s what made us who we are.

Desmond Sutton and his mother

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Dr. Desmond Sutton and his mother.

MH: What part of your upbringing prepared you for medicine that med school absolutely did not?

Darien Sutton: Our dad is a criminal attorney.

Desmond Sutton: We got to know the court system pretty well.

Darien Sutton: We would sit in those pews when we would go to court with him. From that moment, I realized, as a Black man, the value in the work that my father did and what it meant when he stood up there. There’s so much in our world that we can’t decide. People are trying to do the best that they can. Our dad really drilled into us that there are mistakes that are going to happen. You have to figure out how you can meet people where they are. It’s not about judgment. It’s not about figuring out what they did wrong. That was an experience that really sticks with me today as a physician, especially in the emergency room, dealing with people who have different circumstances that they cannot control and helping them cope with those situations. We take our dad’s spirit with us when we’re treating patients.

Desmond Sutton: He made sure that we understood how to stand our ground. He was the type of dad that would listen to his kids. He would listen to what we were saying, what our desires were, and he would challenge us. But it was always in the spirit of growing our confidence and mental well-being.

MH: So how did medicine come out of this and not law?

Desmond Sutton: Well for me, personally, I thought if the world ends tomorrow, you’re always going to need a doctor.

Darien Sutton: When I got to college, I knew I wanted to be a doctor, and I think Desmond was like, “I’m not going to be the brother of a doctor.” He was like, “Sign me up! What classes is he taking?”

Desmond Sutton: That is true! Darien was the more focused one in college. I’m the more social one. I always tell people if it wasn’t for the fact that I had a twin brother who was also studying to go to med school, I don’t know if I would have made it. He was kind of my north star, my barometer. He kept me in line, which is interesting now because then I became all in on the clinical side, and Darien found other avenues to promote health and wellness. You know, throughout the entire nation.

“Our job as doctors is not to move people by force. It’s to provide them the options based off of our training and our education and to let them lead the way.”
—Dr. Darien Sutton

MH: Within the health care system, Black and brown people face inequities in terms of treatment and care. When did you both learn that?

Desmond Sutton: I feel like we had the sensation of that growing up just from seeing people reach out to our mother for help. She would also talk about the pitfalls in the health care system, and how Black and brown people are more vulnerable to those pitfalls because it’s a very dense and immense system that’s hard to navigate. Darien went to NYU and I went to Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx. I chose to go to the med school in the Bronx because it serviced a mostly Medicaid or underinsured population that was mostly Black and brown. And there you get to see it front and center.

Darien Sutton: Also our dad taught us about responsibility and social determinants of health before we realized that there was a name to it. A lot of our education when we were younger was experiencing the lives of others and the consequences that happen from those mistakes, but then also the environment that creates these issues. As physicians, we are often put in a place where you’re just supposed to learn that “Oh, this is what happens in biology, and this is the result of it.” But as a Black physician, it’s a different experience because you have a different lived experience. You see very much how the social determinants of health affect people’s outcomes, just as much of that biology, because you live in it, and you see it, and you have family members who are affected by it. Our father really instilled in us to continue asking questions. That’s very much how Desmond and I practice medicine and talk about patients because the “why” doesn’t stop until you learn everything about the person.

Desmond Sutton: I remember I was on my general surgery rotation in med school and there was this one resident who was well-meaning, but definitely unaware. He took me to see this patient at 2 a.m. He walked in the room, turned on the lights, and didn’t introduce himself. He just walked to the patient’s bedside with me and started talking about the patient as if he wasn’t there. It was an older Black man who reminded me of my grandfather. I remember looking at him, and he looked bewildered, and the resident starts to gently touch him and point out different things on his body that were significant for his clinical exam. And then at one point, he was referring to something that was like in his groin area. And he’s like, “Oh, wait till you see this.” And he went to go grab the sheet.

At that point, something came over me, and I put my hand over his, and I looked at him, and I said, “I think he’s had enough.” The patient looked at me and said, “Thank you.” Then the resident kind of woke up and was like, “Oh yeah, I’m sorry” and left the room embarrassed. I gently tucked in the patient and turned out the lights and said, “I’m so sorry.” I’ve never seen such a blatant display of disregard and not looking at someone like a human. A lot of it was because he looked like my grandfather, but for this non-Black, white resident, he looked like another random patient in the middle of the Bronx.

Darien and Desmon Sutton

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The twin brothers with their father.

MH: Desmond, what’s a moment during labor and delivery that carries the most weight for you?

Darien Sutton: Do you still get scared at all?

Desmond Sutton: I mean, when someone’s heart stops in labor, that definitely scares me. You know, it’s very rare to have a maternal cardiac arrest in labor. But when it happens, it can be pure chaos. At my hospital, I set up the specialized training simulation program for maternal cardiac arrest. If you do things appropriately and timely, you can come away with a good outcome.

I had a case where a mom’s heart stopped in labor. I ended up scrubbing in for the surgery for the patient thereafter, and the patient ended up doing remarkably well. Her heart stopped for almost 15 minutes, and her and the baby survived. I remember that was a moment where I was so proud of my team and the work we had done, because we had prepared for this very rare event.

The other thing that carries the most weight for me is when you have losses. So much of labor and delivery are joyous occasions because people are expanding or growing their families. But there are those unfortunate cases where people lose a child, and that’s a moment where we really take a different role of supporting the entire family. That’s a time where we really come together as a team to provide them with mementos, footprints, birth cards, photos. It’s not necessarily the clinical things that we do, but it’s the things we do outside of that to really help them with their coping.

Darien Sutton: I have to say, Desmond doesn’t give himself enough service. As a maternal fetal medicine doctor, he’s dealing with not only a complicated experience of pregnancy in general, but he’s also treating patients who have some type of disorder or complication during a pregnancy. That’s unfortunate, but a reality for many women in the United States. Desmond goes through these training simulations, and I’ve seen them where he’s able to teach his residents and the nurses. And he does so in a way that makes everyone feel like they’re on that team, and they’re so joyful when they find out that they’ve had a good outcome because of that training. It’s a reminder about the power of education, but also the power of camaraderie.

MH: Both of you operate in moments where protocol meets intuition. How do you know when to trust which?

Darien Sutton: I just finished a radio show and this topic came up. We were talking about those hair-raising moments in the emergency room when a patient tells you, for example, “I feel like I might die today.” Those are not words that I take lightly. What you decide to do in the next moments after that…that’s when your intuition kicks in. What you do in that moment is whatever is more likely to keep that patient there and to make that intuition feeling go away.

Desmond Sutton: I know exactly what you’re talking about. I remember the patient that I had where my charge nurse—her name is Annette and she’s a Jamaican woman—looked at me and she said, “Dr. Sutton, it doesn’t feel right in my spirit.” Like okay, I’m going to go to that room. There are these moments where you get this gut feeling something’s wrong, and you just don’t stop until you figure it out and you get that feeling away.

Darien Sutton

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Dr. Darien Sutton on GMA.

MH: What’s something that medical dramas get fundamentally wrong about what you do?

Desmond Sutton: The Pitt is incredibly accurate. Now what is it that people get wrong?

Darien Sutton: The interdisciplinary communication is a big part of our career. When people talk about or wonder what we talk about, it’s not necessarily the patients. It’s often our conversations with other doctors about patients. That’s a really interesting dynamic because medicine teaches you a lot, but doesn’t necessarily teach you about communication. So Desmond and I are always interested in how people communicate problems, how they work through issues, and how they communicate that to others. You really can’t describe that easily in a show. Also the fact that in many of these medical shows, the doctors are often treating outside of their specialty. There’s a lot more collaboration on TV. So sometimes you see a doctor doing more than one procedure. I’m like, ain’t no way doctor’s doing all of that.

Darien and Desmond Sutton

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The brothers today.

MH: Have you ever saved a life then immediately had to walk into another room and do something like nothing happened?

Darien Sutton: Every day. When I’m in the emergency room, we have different areas. We have our low acuity space, where let’s say you tripped and fell and hurt your wrists. Then we have our moderate acuity, where you’re having chest pain. And then we have our high acuity, which is you’ve been stabbed or you have a gunshot wound. As the ER doctor, you are traversing back and forth through all of those different parts of the ER so you’ll go from one space where you’ve just declared and defined death to another patient who’s upset because they’ve been waiting for so long because you’ve been preoccupied with things that they don’t know about. What you have to practice in the emergency room is realizing that every time you open that curtain up, even though you don’t know what you’re going to see, you got to reset and you got to help people understand. You also have to be a good listener, and you have to be patient and calm.

Desmond Sutton: For labor and delivery, and for high-risk pregnancy, sometimes it is going well, well, well. And then sometimes, in a moment’s notice, I have to walk into a room and tell the patient, “Hi, I’m Dr. Sutton. I’m so sorry to meet you this way, but I need to cut your baby out and we need to do an emergency C-section.” What I focus on telling my team is for us, it’s Tuesday. But for the patient, it’s the first day of the rest of their lives.

Darien Sutton: I also just want to say, Desmond never says “cut your baby out.” He’s using that terminology because he’s talking with me. When I started talking to Desmond about the complications and the risks of pregnancy, as a population we downplay the significance of these procedures and these surgeries. They are major surgeries, and because they happen so commonly we just associate it with, “Oh, it’s just like one and done.” I would encourage anyone who’s interested to really go in and watch a C-section.

Desmond Sutton: I was actually excited to hear that Men’s Health was interested in talking to an obstetrician because even though men don’t have babies, all men come from a uterus. There’s a number of different maternal diseases in pregnancy that go on to produce real health effects in the offspring of those patients. Women’s health ultimately affects men.

Darien Sutton: Yes, all men. I’m happy that Desmond is here, because more men need to know about the complications and also the reality of pregnancy and delivery. I think if we had a class like that, where we understood what was going on in those OB departments, we would have a lot more order in this world.

MH: What’s the most dangerous bro science myth around this you’re seeing right now?

Desmond Sutton: There isn’t so much bro science because a lot of bros just stay out of it completely. It’s just a complete unawareness. There’s a lot of misinformation out there around pregnancy science. There’s a lot of distrust of health care providers, and that has definitely been earned from decades of medical maltreatment against women and marginalized populations for sure. But at certain times, it does kind of work against the overall goal of having the safest pregnancy and the safest outcome.

Darien Sutton: People are astonished when they realize how complex pregnancy is, and how high-risk it is. It’s so complex that there’s an entire specialty of medicine dedicated to keeping mothers alive during this period of their life. I don’t think people realize the gravity of that. And so when I hear the biggest bro myth science issue, it’s often people don’t realize the risk that a woman is taking the minute they get pregnant. And because we don’t realize that risk, I think that plays into a lot of our policy. Because right now, you see the maternal health care in the United States is some of the lowest when you compare it to other high-income countries. In certain states like Mississippi, it’s as dangerous to have a baby there than it is in an under-resourced country. If we understood the risk that women took on, we would realize how our policies put women at risk every single day. And if there was any moment that I could help a bro wake up from their myth and misinformation, it’s waking them up to the reality and the risk of pregnancy.

MH: How do you decide when to engage with that misinformation, or just let it die in the algorithm?

Desmond Sutton: We need more people like Darien who are out there on social media platforms dispelling a lot of these myths. A lot of health care and especially academic medicine has looked down upon social media. It’s so funny now to see people look at Darien. People who used to look down upon him are now asking him for advice on how they can do the same thing that he’s doing.

The next one is when we approach the patients who have these misconceptions, understanding that we as health care providers have earned this reputation. This distrust is not misplaced. It comes from years of mistreatment. And so we really need to engage in these conversations with the understanding that this is coming from a very real space. We need to put the work in as health care providers to rebuild that trust.

Darien Sutton: That was so beautifully summarized. Our job as doctors is not to move people by force. It’s to provide them the options based off of our training and our education and to let them lead the way. I really do believe that we would decrease a lot of the conflict in hospitals if we just let patients feel like they are the owner of their medical plan. It’s really important. I’m going to figure out how I can give you all the tools necessary to continue living your life, and I’m going to explain to you the risks and the benefits and some people might choose differently from me, and that is okay.

“We need more people like Darien who are out there on social media platforms dispelling a lot of these myths. People who used to look down upon him are now asking him for advice on how they can do the same thing that he’s doing.”
—Dr. Desmond Sutton

MH: What responsibility do physicians have when influencers are louder than the evidence?

Darien Sutton: I teach a lot of mentees about how to navigate their online presence online. The type of doctor that you want to come off as online is the same doctor that you hope that patients see. You have to treat it as if that patient is walking out of the hospital and they can see all of your profiles the minute they go out. And you have to ask yourself, if all of that content is in line with the kind of doctor you are. So number one, that has to match. Number two, we have to realize that content creation leads by being provocative. The goal of content creation is to get engagement. And every time you see any piece of content, even if it’s about health, the goal of the creator of that content is to get you to engage, to like, to comment, and often that comes at the sacrifice of accuracy. So I think it’s so important when you’re building platforms that you’re not only building it because you want to do a purpose of educating or maybe to make people laugh, but you remain accurate, and you also operate as a physician.

If you watch my content, often someone comments, “He sounds like he’s AI.” And I think it’s because I only make content when I’m feeling at the calmest space in my day, because I know that the way that other people will engage is by adding emotion and making something provocative. That’s not how I treat patients in the hospital, and that’s not how I create content. It’s always so important to make sure that you’re coming at it with an even-keeled approach. And unfortunately, yes, there are people who will be able to become more viral because they’re being provocative, or they’re making a joke, or they’re making fun of a patient, but those are not the people that you would go to if you were in an emergency. It’s a continuous battle. But there might be one person that’s watching your content and changes their behavior because they now understand what blood pressure is. They now understand how diabetes works. And you saved one more life.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

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Describe your job in three words.

Desmond Sutton: Fast-paced. Rewarding.

Darien Sutton: Chaotic. Fast. Hopeful.

Favorite medical show?

Desmond Sutton: The Pitt.

Darien Sutton: ER.

Best career advice you’ve ever received?

Desmond Sutton: If you have a purpose and follow your purpose, everything will fall in line. When I was going into OB-GYN, so many people tried to dissuade me because I was a man. But I had this gut feeling that that was the right choice, and I’m so glad I did, because I love my career.

Now, as I’m moving more into leadership, I feel like I’m following my purpose and that I can affect the lives of so many more patients not just in my unit, but ones potentially in a large portion of New York City. When you’re not trying to follow money or a title or recognition and really just being obedient to your purpose, I think you get the most rewards out of life.

Darien Sutton: Obedient to your talent and obedient to your purpose. Whatever you create, you only have to have one fan that’s willing to watch that over and over again, that loves that content, and that fan has to be you. I always think about that whenever I’m creating content or even recording a video whether it be for my own social media or on large platforms like Good Morning America.

Robotic surgery: Yay or nay?

Desmond Sutton: Depends. I just think it’s cool.

Darien Sutton: Yay. I trained in robotic surgery…there are definitely some scenarios where it’s great, and then there are some scenarios where you don’t really need to use it.

Describe the future of AI in health care in three words.

Desmond Sutton: Revolutionary. Efficiency.

Darien Sutton: Revolutionary. Risk. Regulation.

What’s the strangest question a patient has ever asked you?

Desmond Sutton: If I drink too much hot water, would it burn the baby?

Darien Sutton: I don’t think any question is strange for me because, honestly, sometimes when I sit there and I hear patients talk about stuff I go “same.”

Morning shift or night shift?

Desmond Sutton: I like a night shift because at night things that need to happen, happen.

Darien Sutton: I love a morning shift. I love a clean slate. I don’t like night…you got to deal with whatever happened during the morning.

Guilty pleasure after a long shift?

Desmond Sutton: I’m a big fan of breakfast food. So French toast, pancakes, and coffee.

Darien Sutton: Cheeseburger, french fries, and a double shot of whiskey. That’s a once-a-month kind of thing, but the cheeseburger and french fries at the bar my favorite thing.

Where does exercise fit into your life?

Desmond Sutton: It’s integral. It helps me keep my mental acuity. I try to work out at least three times a week and try to get at least two sessions of cardio in, if I can. It keeps me centered. I also practice mindfulness meditation quite a bit.

Darien Sutton: I once heard that exercising is like a bath for your brain because all those endorphins and good hormones are released. Exercise changes my whole entire day, every day.

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Milo Bryant, CSCS, is a California-based trainer and an award-winning journalist.

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