What if you decide you’re not ready to be a parent?
After you do the research and reflection, crunch the numbers, and ask around, it’s very possible you’ll realize you’re not ready to be a parent or that it isn’t the right time. And that’s okay! Everyone has their own dreams, goals, lifestyles and relationships, and they don’t always involve starting a family.
If you’re not ready for kids but still want to spend time with children, there are often other great options. Being involved with friends’ or siblings’ children can be fun and rewarding (it’s also a great way to “test drive” parenting and see how you react to challenges). And there are probably plenty of opportunities in your community to mentor kids. For example, consider volunteering for Big Brothers Big Sisters or the Boys & Girls Club of America , coaching in a local youth recreation league, or joining a day care organization in your area.
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